But men don't like to stop and ask for directions.

It started at the end of last year. One by one, relationships I knew were shaken. It seemed to be the season for storms and earthquakes as 2006 closed.

I’m talking about couples. Both couples I know and couples I know about.

Some didn’t survive. Others did, but with gaping holes and makeshift patches over portions of walls that have blown away. Yet, the occupants still continue to shelter under the creaky roof of that relationship. Where else is there to go anyway?

So all relationships are tested. Ultimately, all relationships also disappoint.

So what’s wrong here?

It’s sad to see two hearts start out with all the best intentions in the world, and then shipwreck on rocks they didn’t see.

If only they had stopped to ask for directions.