who can't grab the bull by the horns, make eye contact and face issues squarely. I hate them.
The dishonesty required for such a cover-up must be phenomenal. How do you live with yourself? Through compartmentalization? Denial? Pathetic self-justification?
I'm too honest to say I don't lie about the way I feel at times. In fact, I admit that I do. I'm at a loss on what to do now. So, I remain silent and walk away.
circa 8:46 pm
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Quite often a difficult, painful, or frustrating day can be "redeemed" by writing about it. By writing we can claim what we have lived and thus integrate it more fully into our journeys. Then writing can become lifesaving for us and sometimes for others too."
3 comments:
Hey,
There are many times when I am unable to take the bull by the horns and face issues squarely, at least for a period of time.
Give it time. As long as you know you've done your part, be at peace. Let go and if the other party hasn't done his part yet, or never does, so be it.
And like you said, there are times you yourself lie about the way you feel. Nearly everyone, if not everyone, will have their own extents of 'lying' about their feelings to themselves or to those around them.
On a more humourous note, it sounds like a pretty intense relationship you've got there. You must introduce your new boyfriend to me. Haha! Just joking, alright? You can beat me up next time you see me.
Cheers!
Yes, it hurts like mad. Then, I realize that I can either choose to stay angry, or just let it all go, and forgive. It's hard...but ultimately, it gives you freedom. And that taste of freedom is like a cool sharp breath of fresh air. :-)
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